{"id":49613,"date":"2017-04-25T20:18:25","date_gmt":"2017-04-25T17:18:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.bilgeyatirimci.com\/?p=49613"},"modified":"2017-04-25T20:18:25","modified_gmt":"2017-04-25T17:18:25","slug":"cetin-unsalan-sikinti-yoksa-ve-onemsizse-bos-verin","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.bilgeyatirimci.com\/i\/cetin-unsalan-sikinti-yoksa-ve-onemsizse-bos-verin\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c7etin \u00dcnsalan &#8211; S\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131 yoksa ve \u00f6nemsizse bo\u015f verin"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em><strong>Bir arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n aile ili\u015fkilerinize kar\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ve birbirinize davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131z konusunda tasvip etmedi\u011fi \u015feyler oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn. Normal olarak burada iki tav\u0131r s\u00f6z konusu olur.<\/strong><\/em><\/p><div class=\"bilge-yaziust\" style=\"margin-top: 10px;margin-bottom: 10px;\" id=\"bilge-1912250511\"><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\"\r\n     style=\"display:block\"\r\n     data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-7495567325667578\"\r\n     data-ad-slot=\"9580705384\"\r\n     data-ad-format=\"rectangle\"\r\n     data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\r\n<script>\r\n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({});\r\n<\/script><\/div>\n<p>Birinci senaryoda de\u011fer verdi\u011finiz ki\u015fidir ve ele\u015ftirilerinin hangi noktalarda yo\u011funla\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 dinlersiniz. Nerede hata yapm\u0131\u015f olabilece\u011finizi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr ve hakl\u0131l\u0131k pay\u0131 varsa, te\u015fekk\u00fcr eder ve bunlar\u0131 d\u00fczeltmenin yollar\u0131n\u0131 arars\u0131n\u0131z. Tersi de olabilir.<\/p>\n<p>Olaylar\u0131 yanl\u0131\u015f yorumlad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 belirtir ve sakin sakin ne oldu\u011funu anlat\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z. Ama t\u00fcm bunlar\u0131n birinci kural\u0131, o ki\u015finin size dost oldu\u011funa inanman\u0131z ve g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015flerine de\u011fer vermenizdir.<\/p>\n<p>Gelelim ikinci senaryoya\u2026 Bunun haddine d\u00fc\u015fen bir davran\u0131\u015f olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ifade edip, ili\u015fkilerinizi kesersiniz. Ne s\u00f6yledi\u011fi a\u011fr\u0131n\u0131za gider, ne bunu s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131 meselesi yapars\u0131n\u0131z ve \u00f6nemsiz oldu\u011fu i\u00e7in bo\u015f verirsiniz.<\/p>\n<p>\u015eimdi gelelim Avrupa Konseyi Parlamenterler Meclisi\u2019nin raporuna\u2026 Rencide edici oldu\u011fu a\u00e7\u0131k. Ama kolay olan yolu, hamaseti bir kenara b\u0131rak\u0131p, cevab\u0131n\u0131 vermeniz gereken soru, bu iki senaryodan hangisinde durdu\u011funuzdur.<\/p>\n<p>\u00d6ncelikle siz ger\u00e7ekten do\u011fru bir uygulama i\u00e7inde oldu\u011funuza inan\u0131yor musunuz? \u00dclkenizde ya\u015fayanlar\u0131n yar\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n bu do\u011frultudaki ele\u015ftirilerini g\u00f6rmezden gelirseniz, elalem de bu tespitini ortaya koyar.<\/p>\n<p>Fakat bunlar bizi k\u0131skanm\u0131yor muydu? Referandum \u00f6ncesinde \u2018ey\u2019 ba\u015fl\u0131\u011f\u0131yla etmedi\u011fimiz hakareti b\u0131rakmad\u0131k. Hatta olaylar\u0131 daha da ileriye g\u00f6t\u00fcrd\u00fck ve ili\u015fkilerimizi kesmekten bahsettik.<\/p>\n<p>\u00d6yle de\u011fil miydi? Yanl\u0131\u015f m\u0131 hat\u0131rl\u0131yorum? O zaman Mehmet \u015eim\u015fek neden gidip Alman gazetesine verdi\u011fi r\u00f6portajda ekonomik yard\u0131m istedi? Veya AB Bakan\u0131 neden durmadan vize konusunda \u0131srarc\u0131 oluyor?<\/p><div class=\"bilge-content-1\" style=\"margin-top: 10px;margin-bottom: 10px;\" id=\"bilge-2533936178\"><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\"\r\n     style=\"display:block\"\r\n     data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-7495567325667578\"\r\n     data-ad-slot=\"3167340272\"\r\n     data-ad-format=\"rectangle\"\r\n     data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\r\n<script>\r\n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({});\r\n<\/script><\/div>\n<p>Bunlar birbiriyle \u00e7eli\u015fki i\u00e7eren hareketler. Hangisi ger\u00e7ek tav\u0131r? \u0130li\u015fkide kalmak m\u0131 istiyoruz; yoksa hadlerini bildirip ili\u015fkileri kesmek mi? \u00d6nce bu sorunun yan\u0131t\u0131n\u0131 vermek gerekmiyor mu?<\/p>\n<p>Bir de \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fc normal var. \u00dclkelerle bu kadar siyah beyaz politikalar y\u00fcr\u00fctmeden, oturup konu\u015farak anla\u015fmak. D\u00fcnyadaki her \u00fclkeyle masaya oturursunuz. Bundan daha \u00f6nemlisi oturdu\u011funuz gibi onurluca ve ayaklar\u0131 yere basarak kalkabilmektir.<\/p>\n<p>Yok, bize kar\u015f\u0131 k\u00f6t\u00fc niyetli olduklar\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorsak, koyar\u0131z \u00f6nlerine verdikleri paralar\u0131, keseriz ili\u015fkileri ve i\u015fimize bakar\u0131z. D\u00f6n\u00fcp tekrar yard\u0131m talep etmeyiz.<\/p>\n<p>Biz hangisiyiz?<\/p><div class=\"bilge-content-2\" style=\"margin-top: 10px;margin-bottom: 10px;\" id=\"bilge-1811039371\"><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\"\r\n     style=\"display:block\"\r\n     data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-7495567325667578\"\r\n     data-ad-slot=\"1818807385\"\r\n     data-ad-format=\"rectangle\"\r\n     data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\r\n<script>\r\n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({});\r\n<\/script><\/div>\n<p><a href=\"mailto:cetinunsalan@yahoo.com\">cetinunsalan@yahoo.com<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Bir arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n aile ili\u015fkilerinize kar\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ve birbirinize davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131z konusunda tasvip etmedi\u011fi \u015feyler oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn. Normal olarak burada iki tav\u0131r s\u00f6z konusu olur. Birinci senaryoda de\u011fer&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[904,808,801],"class_list":["post-49613","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-tumyazilar","tag-cetin-unsalan-yazilari","tag-ekonomi-makaleleri","tag-ekonomi-yazarlari-listesi"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bilgeyatirimci.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/49613","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bilgeyatirimci.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bilgeyatirimci.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bilgeyatirimci.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bilgeyatirimci.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=49613"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.bilgeyatirimci.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/49613\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bilgeyatirimci.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=49613"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bilgeyatirimci.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=49613"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bilgeyatirimci.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=49613"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}