{"id":352,"date":"2011-05-24T19:01:16","date_gmt":"2011-05-24T16:01:16","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/bilgeyatirimci.net\/?p=352"},"modified":"2011-06-04T19:45:45","modified_gmt":"2011-06-04T16:45:45","slug":"bu-zihniyet-devlet-yonetiyor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.bilgeyatirimci.com\/i\/bu-zihniyet-devlet-yonetiyor\/","title":{"rendered":"Bu Zihniyet Devlet Y\u00f6netiyor"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Bazen \u00f6yle s\u00f6zler d\u00f6k\u00fcl\u00fcyor ki ortaya, \u2018beyler devlet y\u00f6netiyor\u2019 diye sitem edesi geliyor insan\u0131n. Fakat bu sefer durum farkl\u0131\u2026 \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc y\u00f6netenin kad\u0131n versiyonu ile ba\u015f\u0131m\u0131z belaya girdi.<\/p><div class=\"bilge-yaziust\" style=\"margin-top: 10px;margin-bottom: 10px;\" id=\"bilge-3100323299\"><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\"\r\n     style=\"display:block\"\r\n     data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-7495567325667578\"\r\n     data-ad-slot=\"9580705384\"\r\n     data-ad-format=\"rectangle\"\r\n     data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\r\n<script>\r\n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({});\r\n<\/script><\/div>\n<p>Fatih ve Ey\u00fcp belediyelerinin aile ve evlilik dan\u0131\u015fmanl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 yapan Sibel \u00dcresin \u00f6yle s\u00f6zler sarf etti ki, yenilir yutulur cinsten de\u011fil. Erkeklerin y\u00fczde 85\u2019i e\u015flerini aldat\u0131yormu\u015f, muhafazak\u00e2r kesimde buna imam nikah\u0131, di\u011fer kesimde metres ad\u0131 veriliyormu\u015f.<\/p>\n<p>Madem durum b\u00f6yle imi\u015f, o zaman \u00e7ok e\u015flili\u011fin \u00f6n\u00fc a\u00e7\u0131lmal\u0131, bu konuda yasal d\u00fczenleme yaparak kad\u0131n\u0131n ortada kalmas\u0131 \u00f6nlenmeli imi\u015f. Vay, vay, vay\u2026 \u00d6ncelikle b\u00f6ylesi bir yakla\u015f\u0131mla hangi dan\u0131\u015fmanl\u0131\u011f\u0131 yap\u0131yor merak ediyorum.<\/p>\n<p>Erkekler e\u015flerini aldat\u0131r m\u0131? Asl\u0131nda konu bu da de\u011fil. Do\u011fru yanl\u0131\u015f tart\u0131\u015fmas\u0131na girmeyece\u011fim. Ben \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm noktas\u0131na tak\u0131lm\u0131\u015f durumday\u0131m. \u00a0Sibel \u00dcresin\u2019e g\u00f6re \u00e7ok e\u015flili\u011fin \u00f6n\u00fcn\u00fc a\u00e7arsak, b\u00fct\u00fcn problemler ortadan kalkacak.<\/p>\n<p>T\u00fcrkiye n\u00fcfusunun yar\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 olu\u015fturan bir kesimi, di\u011fer yar\u0131s\u0131na ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131 hale getirmemizle sorun da bitecek. E\u011fer AKP\u2019nin t\u00fcm sorunlar\u0131 halletme \u015fekli bu ise, yaz\u0131k \u00fclkemin haline\u2026 Kad\u0131n\u0131 erke\u011fe ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131 k\u0131lmak yerine, toplumda meslek sahibi yapmak, e\u011fitim g\u00f6rmesini sa\u011flamak, birey olarak haklar\u0131n\u0131 ta\u015f\u0131r pozisyona getirmek neden kimsenin akl\u0131na gelmiyor.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7ocuk ya\u015f\u0131nda ba\u015fl\u0131k paras\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 evlendirmek, tarlada i\u015f\u00e7i yapmak, be\u011fendi\u011fin kad\u0131n\u0131 d\u00f6rde \u00e7\u0131karmak bu zihniyetin \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fc oluyor da, g\u00fczl\u00fc kad\u0131n, \u00f6ne \u00e7\u0131kan kad\u0131n niye \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm olmuyor? Kad\u0131n\u0131 asalak haline getirecek ve bu nedenle de sesi hi\u00e7bir konuda \u00e7\u0131kmayacak bireyler olarak kabul etmenin neresi do\u011fru olabilir?<\/p>\n<p>Tek sorun kad\u0131n\u0131n aldat\u0131lmas\u0131 de\u011fil. Birle\u015fmi\u015f Milletler taraf\u0131ndan yap\u0131lan bir ara\u015ft\u0131rmaya g\u00f6re, d\u00fcnyadaki i\u015flerin y\u00fczde 66\u2019s\u0131 kad\u0131nlar taraf\u0131ndan yap\u0131l\u0131yor. Peki kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 ne? Gelirin sadece y\u00fczde 10\u2019una, d\u00fcnyadaki mal varl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n da y\u00fczde 1\u2019ine sahipler.<\/p>\n<p>Gelelim T\u00fcrkiye\u2019ye\u2026\u2019\u015eehirlerdeki evli kad\u0131nlar\u0131n y\u00fczde 18\u2019i, k\u00f6ylerde de y\u00fczde 76\u2019s\u0131 dayak yiyor. Aile i\u00e7i su\u00e7lar\u0131n y\u00fczde 90\u2019\u0131 kad\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131 \u015fiddetten olu\u015fuyor.\u2019 Peki bu zihni sinir yakla\u015f\u0131mla tablonun tersine d\u00f6nece\u011fini mi san\u0131yorsunuz? Aksine \u00e7o\u011falarak artacak\u2026<\/p><div class=\"bilge-content-1\" style=\"margin-top: 10px;margin-bottom: 10px;\" id=\"bilge-3530462937\"><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\"\r\n     style=\"display:block\"\r\n     data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-7495567325667578\"\r\n     data-ad-slot=\"3167340272\"\r\n     data-ad-format=\"rectangle\"\r\n     data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\r\n<script>\r\n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({});\r\n<\/script><\/div>\n<p>Bu yalanlara inanmay\u0131n. Bu zihniyete prim vermeyin. Kad\u0131nlara kar\u015f\u0131 i\u015flenen su\u00e7lar\u0131 ya da aldatmalar\u0131 \u00f6nlemenin yolu iyi bir e\u011fitim, bir meslek sahibi olma ve ekonomik \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fckten ge\u00e7mektedir.<\/p>\n<p>Madem \u00dcresin\u2019e g\u00f6re kad\u0131nlar\u0131n y\u00fczde 85\u2019i aldat\u0131l\u0131yor, neden \u015fu sorunun yan\u0131t\u0131n\u0131 vermiyor? Aldat\u0131lan kad\u0131n neden bo\u015fanam\u0131yor? Sak\u0131n bana \u00e7ocuk demeyin. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ger\u00e7ek sebep bu de\u011fil. Kad\u0131n\u0131n ekonomik ve bireysel haklar bak\u0131m\u0131ndan ba\u011f\u0131ms\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131 yok.<\/p>\n<p>Kad\u0131nlar bu yalanlara inanmamal\u0131\u2026 Sorun varsa, \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fc \u00dcresin\u2019in dediklerinin yak\u0131n\u0131ndan bile ge\u00e7miyor. Bu \u00fclkenin daha e\u011fitimli, daha \u00e7a\u011fda\u015f, daha birey olma \u00f6zelliklerine sahip, daha fikir sahibi kad\u0131nlara ihtiyac\u0131 var. K\u00f6leli\u011fi legalle\u015ftirmeye de\u011fil.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"mailto:cetinunsalan@yahoo.com\">cetinunsalan@yahoo.com<\/a><\/p><div class=\"bilge-content-2\" style=\"margin-top: 10px;margin-bottom: 10px;\" id=\"bilge-169330233\"><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\"\r\n     style=\"display:block\"\r\n     data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-7495567325667578\"\r\n     data-ad-slot=\"1818807385\"\r\n     data-ad-format=\"rectangle\"\r\n     data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins>\r\n<script>\r\n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({});\r\n<\/script><\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Bazen \u00f6yle s\u00f6zler d\u00f6k\u00fcl\u00fcyor ki ortaya, \u2018beyler devlet y\u00f6netiyor\u2019 diye sitem edesi geliyor insan\u0131n. Fakat bu sefer durum farkl\u0131\u2026 \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc y\u00f6netenin kad\u0131n versiyonu ile ba\u015f\u0131m\u0131z&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":899,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-352","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-tumyazilar"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bilgeyatirimci.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/352","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bilgeyatirimci.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bilgeyatirimci.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bilgeyatirimci.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bilgeyatirimci.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=352"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.bilgeyatirimci.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/352\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bilgeyatirimci.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/899"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bilgeyatirimci.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=352"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bilgeyatirimci.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=352"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bilgeyatirimci.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=352"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}